About A Girl...

[kylealastairlove]

im in a bit of a weird situation, and i figured everyone on this forum is lovely and might be able to offer advice so here goes...

there is a girl im beginning to like, i've been spending a lot of time with her over the past few weeks and we've been getting to know eachother. i met her through a friend and we all started meeting up together and now she comes to see me on her own

but yeah im really starting to like her and i dont know if she knows it yet, but the problem is she really likes one of my friends, she always talks to me about him and i try help her out and give her advice, im always there for her because i want her to be happy. i recently have been told that she also likes me as well as this other guy but i dont know what to do the situation is i dont think my friend is that interested when our group of friends go out they never really talk to eachother and they're kinda awkward where as i get along so well with her i make her laugh she makes me laugh and we always have a happy time and she never fails to put a smile on my face when she came to see me the other day we ended up having a childish moment of having a tickle fight haha :') then we were suddenly holding hands and she seemed as if she was happy to be close to me which made me happy too, i sent a message to my friend telling him i need to talk to him as i figured i had better tell him that i like her as its only fair he knows about it. i just dont know what to do, id do anything to make her mine but she likes him as well as me (and i think she likes him more than me even though they hardly speak in person) i love spending time with her and love to see her smile. what should i do im a little confused all i know right now is i want her!

thanks for taking the time to read my essay lol

 

[FishFanatic04]

My best piece of advice which applies to all aspects of life: Be honest. Just tell her how you feel. People are not mind readers and she may not get it. If it doesn't go your way, then you have a nice extra layer of bravery and the next time you can draw on that.

Good luck. I romance.

 

[kylealastairlove]

thankyou ! romance is nice i'll pluck up the courage to tell her, what a rush that'll be when it comes to it aha! hopefully she will feel the same way we definately got off to a good start when i meet somebody new im usually quite shy and dont talk much but when im around her im just me! i dont shut up and i can be my usual strange but funny self haha hope things work out

 

[HannahBear77]

just start telling her how you feel..like you like seeing her smile and making her laugh or you make me smile every time i see you.. you know that kind of stuff, i have a guy who is in the U.S navy that is stationed in japan he loves seeing me smile and then sent me flowers just to see me smile (not saying you have to go all out with the flowers)

but some girls even though they may not seem like it like being told that stuff like that like said above people arent mind readers and you just gotta put it out there how you feel even though you get rejected, i know being a girl i love hearing that stuff from guys

 

[kylealastairlove]

thanks hannah aw that's rather sweet of your man i think hearing advice and other peoples views on this makes me even more confident because now all i want to do is tell her! next time im alone with her i'll give it my best shot

 

[HannahBear77]

he's a rather sweet man when he decides to show his feelings lol..good luck hope every thing turns out good for you

 

[Man of fish]

Girls don't make sense

 

[Crossfire]

Girls don't make sense

But he's right, we don't.

 

[kylealastairlove]

haha you guys ! today i told my friend that i liked her, i thought it was only fair he knows (the friend that she likes, and that cant make up his mind wether he wants her or not) and i think it kind of made things awkward and now i feel like i've ruined everything, my chances with a wonderful girl and a friendship is a bit awkward now

 

[Ludwig Venter]

haha you guys ! today i told my friend that i liked her, i thought it was only fair he knows (the friend that she likes, and that cant make up his mind wether he wants her or not) and i think it kind of made things awkward and now i feel like i've ruined everything, my chances with a wonderful girl and a friendship is a bit awkward now

Kind've brings up the words to the song - Robby Williams and that beautiful actress (Nicole Kidman)??? - (& then I go and spoil it all by saying something stupid like "I love you").....

Yea..... females are from another planet..... The book is not yet written....

 

[PERCY]

Any pics

 

[FishFanatic04]

Any pics

Kyle: Probably not ruined at all. IF he really is your friend, then you will be fine.

 

[HannahBear77]

Me and one of my Best friends had the same issue but in the end we both ended up empty handed cus he felt it was awkward and our friendship was more important than a guy
I wouldn't get to worked up about you were just letting him know how you felt

 

[kylealastairlove]

life is complicated sometimes! ahh well im sure things will sort themselves out im staying positive about this whole thing not gonna let it bring me down

 

[kylealastairlove]

today didnt go too well was a bit awkward when i let my friend know i liked this girl. he thinks the only reason i told him i like her is because i was trying to stop him getting anywhere with her, but we patched things up. then she text me later on which made it awkward i didnt reply because i didnt want to annoy my friend but i was dying to talk to her and now some 2 hours later i finally reply and she then doesn't reply to me my friend said we're better off without her in our lives but i cant not speak to her or see her it'd kill me!