I really appreciate the thoughts. I have already finished my 46g... Trust me, I have treated this like the plague. I have used a strong bleach solution and soaked anything that could, including my sand. That WAS A NICE pita TO rinse. It took me 3 full days with my husband watching the kids. The 75 will take so much longer.
I am very careful with hand washing and rinsing everything I use in the tanks, but I had a papercut, and that was all it took.
Anyway, I would gladly accept your offer of media, but if you could wait until I have some cash to cover postage and replacement media if you need. All the fish medications had really wiped me out. BROKE!! Is the word.
My biofilter is obviously gone. If it wasn't I would be very suspicious of my bleaching job.