"It is interesting that I get a mention for taking this thread off subject. [...]
Oh Iti! It was a light-hearted reply where I apologised for asking Byron questions that were sparked by the things you and he had been debating long before I posted in the thread. Not meant to get you all upset and heated. I am genuinely sorry if you were hurt.
But are you denying that you took it off topic? Byron mentioned what he believes is a safety concern with the substrate the OP was planning to use, so shared his view. Then you did the thing you often do, and started arguing over a topic that is a pet peeve for you! And hey, I carried on with the hijacking and admitted and apologised for it, so saying "in my defence, it's Byron's fault for being interesting and sparking my curiosity, and your fault for doing your usual debating thing, so don't be mad at me, please!" was admitting I was at fault too, not meant to be a crack at you.
You admit that you have pet "causes"; you have very strong views on using water conditioner, hating sand substrates, fitration and plants, how to breed fish (and how
not to) and a few other topics I can't remember now -and you often state those views
strongly when you think someone is wrong. It can be a tad frustrating at times when you're henpecking me and others, but it's also amusing and interesting - it's healthy for people to listen to different view points and challenge their own stances - helps to avoid groupthink.
And thanks to
@Byron and
@AdoraBelle Dearheart writing their usual essays on subjects the whole thread turned to custard.
I've never been good at being concise. Some people are more verbose than others, and some of us enjoy reading detailed explanations and sourced "essay" replies like Byrons, I certainly do.
I'm aware that I am terrible at being concise and I genuinely try to edit myself. But I cannot completely change who I am or how I think and express myself. You, and anyone else, can always reply or pm me and let me know if they think I'm derailing or overwhelming a thread. I mean that.
If you don't like my posts, you can skim right past them! The ignore function on here works just fine
As to a word limit,
@mjfromga sums up my view perfectly:
While I do agree some posts are unnecessarily wordy - I also agree that oftentimes you need a proper explanation which does take a bit of writing. I think some people may just need a reminder to try and keep threads on topic and be concise. So not actually limiting the words people write, but reminders to stay on topic and try not to be repetitive.
Byron for example posts a lot of science based information on threads that need it and Colin posts the disease assistance template. These are helpful to many people.
The only additional thing I'd say is that it's a forum, not Twitter.