dwarfgourami
Fish Connoisseur
I do agree with you... people should find out how big they get...
But to be fair - it's not always there fault.
- Poor LFS advice
- A desire to fill their tank etc. both contribute to this problem. I've done this before (though it wasn't a case of being too big, more a problem of being too aggressive) - It's a little error people make but I don't think there's any need to be nasty to them.
True, but the discussion was not about somebody who hadn't found out the size of the fish, but about people who did know and still wanted to buy the fish to keep for a while. It was not "a little error", that's not the sort of situation this thread was discussing. It seems to be getting side-tracked because a lot of people who have made genuine mistakes feel the need to defend themselves. But if you read the original post, you will find that it was never about those people in the first place. And if you look around the forum, you will probably find that the post who triggered this reaction was from someone who knew perfectly well what they were doing and still did it because they wanted to. So perhaps we should start another thread if we want to express sympathy towards those who have made bona fide mistakes. I for one don't feel I need to apologise for being nasty towards those people when I did my best to make it clear that I was not addressing them in the first place.