Hi, I am sure there are a hundred things wrong with the scenario I am about to lay out but if someone can tell me what to do to move forward, I would appreciate it.
Last August, a friend gave my daughter a tank. Since she is four, that means I got a tank in reality. The tank is a 20 gal high. I went out and got gravel, chemicals, hood, heater, food, live plants, the works. I DID NOT CYCLE the tank since I had no idea what that meant at the time. We set everything up and added fish. The original fish were various kinds of gupppies and mollies. Later, we got a snail. Around Christmas, two guppies died. So we replaced them with some silver tetras that have black marks.
Shortly after that, I was unexpectedly hospitalized. While I was in the hospital the filter died. I came home to a tank full of algae and nothing left alive except the snail and two tetras. I took everything out except the gravel and bought a new filter and also a bubble rock thing. Also, new live plants as well as two plastic plants. Put the survivors back in the tank. Everything seemed okay, so I bought some tequila sunrise guppies (2) and added them. Everything died within a week except one tetra. Went to the fish shop with my water, they tested it and said they saw no problem so they gave me new fish. They died. Went to a different shop and bought mollies this time. They died. At this point, I am thinking the lone tetra is killing the other fish (maybe it is lonely?) so I bought two more like it. Dead the next morning.
At this point, I am tired of dead fish and no explanations (plus I feel awful for the poor things that have no chance in this tank of death). In a fit of aggravation, I took the lone tetra out and put him in a bowl and took EVERYTHING out of the tank and cleaned it with boiling water (since I know enough to know bleach is a bad idea). I bought new gravel and put everything back together and added water.
When I went in to buy gravel, the fish guy said the tetra would not survive the night in the bowl. Poor thing is probably better off at this point. Since I expect it to die while I try to fishless cycle the tank, I didn't do any testing, etc. Just fed him a pinch of food once a day and waited. Lo and behold, it lasts four days in the bowl. I am admiring the things where with all at this point so I decide to try saving him and put him back in the tank (fully expecting him to die any second.) Instead, the thing gets a new lease on life. Color is great, he is active, eating, etc. Last night, my tank all of a sudden went milky white. This morning it was suddenly clear. I now know this is a bacteria bloom. Tetra seems happy than ever. I have named the #40## thing Lazarus at this point.
So questions: what in the world could kill every fish from three different stores but this guy? How am I going to know when it will be safe to get Lazarus some friends? The fish guys insist tetras are nice fish and don't bother other fish. But they also said an empty snail shell means SOMETHING ate the snail. Which was pretty big compared to the fish. What can I put in there with the tetra? How many fish can go in the tank we have? Lazarus seems happy as a clam, but I am somewhat worried I have made this poor fish suffer at a crazy level at this point. I dunno how to tell though. Do fish feel pain/emotions?
Thanks for any suggestions.
Last August, a friend gave my daughter a tank. Since she is four, that means I got a tank in reality. The tank is a 20 gal high. I went out and got gravel, chemicals, hood, heater, food, live plants, the works. I DID NOT CYCLE the tank since I had no idea what that meant at the time. We set everything up and added fish. The original fish were various kinds of gupppies and mollies. Later, we got a snail. Around Christmas, two guppies died. So we replaced them with some silver tetras that have black marks.
Shortly after that, I was unexpectedly hospitalized. While I was in the hospital the filter died. I came home to a tank full of algae and nothing left alive except the snail and two tetras. I took everything out except the gravel and bought a new filter and also a bubble rock thing. Also, new live plants as well as two plastic plants. Put the survivors back in the tank. Everything seemed okay, so I bought some tequila sunrise guppies (2) and added them. Everything died within a week except one tetra. Went to the fish shop with my water, they tested it and said they saw no problem so they gave me new fish. They died. Went to a different shop and bought mollies this time. They died. At this point, I am thinking the lone tetra is killing the other fish (maybe it is lonely?) so I bought two more like it. Dead the next morning.
At this point, I am tired of dead fish and no explanations (plus I feel awful for the poor things that have no chance in this tank of death). In a fit of aggravation, I took the lone tetra out and put him in a bowl and took EVERYTHING out of the tank and cleaned it with boiling water (since I know enough to know bleach is a bad idea). I bought new gravel and put everything back together and added water.
When I went in to buy gravel, the fish guy said the tetra would not survive the night in the bowl. Poor thing is probably better off at this point. Since I expect it to die while I try to fishless cycle the tank, I didn't do any testing, etc. Just fed him a pinch of food once a day and waited. Lo and behold, it lasts four days in the bowl. I am admiring the things where with all at this point so I decide to try saving him and put him back in the tank (fully expecting him to die any second.) Instead, the thing gets a new lease on life. Color is great, he is active, eating, etc. Last night, my tank all of a sudden went milky white. This morning it was suddenly clear. I now know this is a bacteria bloom. Tetra seems happy than ever. I have named the #40## thing Lazarus at this point.
So questions: what in the world could kill every fish from three different stores but this guy? How am I going to know when it will be safe to get Lazarus some friends? The fish guys insist tetras are nice fish and don't bother other fish. But they also said an empty snail shell means SOMETHING ate the snail. Which was pretty big compared to the fish. What can I put in there with the tetra? How many fish can go in the tank we have? Lazarus seems happy as a clam, but I am somewhat worried I have made this poor fish suffer at a crazy level at this point. I dunno how to tell though. Do fish feel pain/emotions?
Thanks for any suggestions.