I had hatchetfish way back when, I ended up not liking them as much as I thought I would because where they are all the way at the top of the water column, I ended up having to basically be sitting under the tank to see them, because they were always obscured by the top bar or the hood of the tank.
Also, this:
Him: what about X fish? I saw them online they look cool!
Me: I love the idea, but [our water/their size/the parrot chichlids] are going to be [too hard/too small/too agressive] for that to work well, sorry what about Y fish?
Him: I think those are [too ugly/too boring/too expensive]
Repeat ad infinitum....
Also, this:
Story of my life. Our fish conversations are usually like this:My husband has to agree as I want him to also like the choice of fish lol so difficult
Him: what about X fish? I saw them online they look cool!
Me: I love the idea, but [our water/their size/the parrot chichlids] are going to be [too hard/too small/too agressive] for that to work well, sorry what about Y fish?
Him: I think those are [too ugly/too boring/too expensive]
Repeat ad infinitum....