I have two pairs of a. cacatuoides in two separate well planted tanks. One tank also has 12 Glowlight tetras and the other pair are by themselves. I only see the females out swimming once every few weeks. Is that normal behavior? Are they fearful of the males? Second issue. I offer food every other day. You would think the fish would bolt for it like my many other species that are all in other tanks. I feed frozen blood worms, live black worms, high quality pellets and flakes. I rarely see them eat. I have been breeding these guys since last October so this is not new behavior. They must be eating because they look healthy and the food is off the substrate by the next morning usually. Ideas? Thanks.