so, since this is devolving into a largely irrelevant argument, my fish deaths cannot be linked to water changes. or to any other additions to the tank. i have track that sort of thing and it is unrelated.
i did a spell of very low maintenance (i had a baby 8 months ago, that makes it hard to keep up on anything). fish died at the same rate as when i've done weekly water changes.
i medicated (one round, per the directions on the package) because nothing else seemed to work, it doesn't seem to have helped either. the only other chemical i put in my tank is Prime when i do a water change.
water conditions are tracked to make sure there are no unexpected changes or obvious problems. there have been neither, but checking doesn't hurt and can be useful to rule out possible problems. yes, some people in the various responses do seem to have focused on them more than i feel was reasonable, but since i have no idea why my fish keep dying i'm not going to say they are wrong to do so. it seems to have proven unnecessary, but it could have been helpful.
i'm not bothering to try for softer water until these last two swordtails either die or survive a few months, at which point i will figure out what i want to do. and the idea of the RO unit isn't for the aquarium, that would just be a side benefit. and i will transition to softer water slowly so as to limit the stress of the change on my plecos.
i did a spell of very low maintenance (i had a baby 8 months ago, that makes it hard to keep up on anything). fish died at the same rate as when i've done weekly water changes.
i medicated (one round, per the directions on the package) because nothing else seemed to work, it doesn't seem to have helped either. the only other chemical i put in my tank is Prime when i do a water change.
water conditions are tracked to make sure there are no unexpected changes or obvious problems. there have been neither, but checking doesn't hurt and can be useful to rule out possible problems. yes, some people in the various responses do seem to have focused on them more than i feel was reasonable, but since i have no idea why my fish keep dying i'm not going to say they are wrong to do so. it seems to have proven unnecessary, but it could have been helpful.
i'm not bothering to try for softer water until these last two swordtails either die or survive a few months, at which point i will figure out what i want to do. and the idea of the RO unit isn't for the aquarium, that would just be a side benefit. and i will transition to softer water slowly so as to limit the stress of the change on my plecos.