I have 12g. Not that big. I think to a certain point, stretched ears look okay. But like the ones that stretch past your cartilage just look stupid. Like that guy up there. Just looks dumb.
I don't have anything too big, just sitting with 2's. Being a graphic artist, I get afforded a little more latitude in my appearance. I've been debating getting my labret redone, but the wife keeps telling me I need to grow up. Bah.