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Haha! Im having trubble with my 2 female blue gouramis now. Whenever they see eachother they fight. And one time i saw them face to face and doing something that looked like kissing. Its mostly the females fighting but sometimes the male will chase one away and it's always the same one. It just hides most of the time. It's like the male and the female are ganging up on her.
That's why it's rec. to have 3 females to 1 male if possible. Spreads the aggression around but you need a large enough tank with plenty of cover to make sure they all have refuge of some sort if they need it. We have 3 hand picked female Three Spot G's in a 55 and the larger platinum & gold ones sometimes harass the smaller blue one but she has plenty of cover.