I found this article yesterday and thought the following paragraph from it was very interesting. It may help explain why your tank isn't cycling.The pH is down again. Something's going on. No nitrite and only 1 ppm ammonia, so I'm holding off on the water change until I can get to the lfs this afternoon with a water sample.
"The pH is also a vital factor in nitrification. Maximum rates of nitrification occur at pH values above 7.2, peaking at 8.3 (a common pH for marine tanks) then falling at higher values. What surprised me was the rate at which the effectiveness of nitrification dropped in acidic pH values: to less than 50% optimal efficiency at pH 7.0, to just under 30% at pH 6.5, and to just over 10% of maximal efficiency at pH 6.0. At these low pH values, nitrifying bacteria don't die, they just stop metabolizing and reproducing. Of course in these acidic conditions, most of the toxic NH3 is ionized to non-toxic NH4. But I had been under the impression (and mentioned here) that the pH needed to drop quite low, below pH 4.8, more like the acidity of a peat bog rather than conditions in a home aquarium. Not so."
Driftwood will generally lower pH as will peat. The lower the KH (buffering capacity), the greater effect those things will have. I don't know if you have either of those or not.
Actually, it's the opposite. Aeration drives CO2 out and oxidizes the water so it should actually raise the pH. People with planted tanks rarely run air pumps as it drives the CO2 that their plants need out.What causes a drop in pH in aquarium water? Decaying organics? Would the heavy aeration be introducing CO2 into the water? I'll try turning the airpump down (it's currently running wide open.)
My understanding is that young plecs are more delicate but I have no personal experience with them. I inherited one from my son when he had to take his freshwater tank down. He is a hardy fellow as he lived for 2 weeks in my sons filter (long story).You're right -- it's difficult sorting out advice! For example, I've heard people who've kept plecs say that the young ones are very delicate. I've also heard others say that plecs, even the juveniles, are the cockroaches of the aquarium world. Some people say the inch-per-gallon rule is a good one, others say that it's complete crap.
I do believe the inch-per-gallon guide is exactly that, a guide. It's not etched in stone but is good for setting up a new tank. If you stay under that, you should generally not have a lot of problems once the tank is cycled. After the tank settles in, there is room for expansion if everything is going well and you have good filtration. The guide definitely doesn't apply with messy fish like goldfish, plecos and oscars to name a few. One of them creates the waste of 3 times the equivalent length in fish like tetras. So stocking is more like 1" per 3 gallons.