So sorry about your mom. That's a lot to process. My father in law past away 4 years ago today. And my grandmother 10 years ago 10th October. Which is 10/10 across the world. That anniversary was very tough for me as we were extremely close. My heart aches with grieve & I try to remind myself that it only hurts so much because there's so much love there.
Definitely tensions but overall a very welcoming, social forum. I love it! And so grateful for this community in welcoming me, and helping me with my fish and giving me something nice to focus on in all the external chaos.
By the way it's day, month, year, litres, cm for small measurements, inches for bigger ones & colour, flavour, etc