Aquarium salt is fine and often is rock salt just sold under a different name. You can also use marine salt or swimming pool salt, whichever is cheapest and easiest to get.
When you first add the salt you just add it to the tank water. Then every few days do a partial water change with brackish water. Once the treatment is finished, (after a couple of weeks) you can start doing daily 10% water changes with fresh water to dilute the salt level in the tank.
You can treat the sick one or all of them. If the male has red gills then it might be an idea to treat them all. You can put a few plastic plants in the tank and that should help give the others a chance to hide from him if he gets a bit boisterous. Otherwise just leave him out and hope he doesn't show any other symptoms. The plants can be held down with lead weights (fishing sinkers or plant anchors) or gravel.
You need to have the filters running in an established tank for about a month before it will be cycled and can be used. I don't normally bother with one in a quarantine tank with salt. If you keep the feeding down, (just a small amount every couple of days), and do regular water changes, that will dilute any ammonia produced and help keep the water clean enough during the treatment. The fish won't starve during that time and should be fine without lots of food.
When you first add the salt you just add it to the tank water. Then every few days do a partial water change with brackish water. Once the treatment is finished, (after a couple of weeks) you can start doing daily 10% water changes with fresh water to dilute the salt level in the tank.
You can treat the sick one or all of them. If the male has red gills then it might be an idea to treat them all. You can put a few plastic plants in the tank and that should help give the others a chance to hide from him if he gets a bit boisterous. Otherwise just leave him out and hope he doesn't show any other symptoms. The plants can be held down with lead weights (fishing sinkers or plant anchors) or gravel.
You need to have the filters running in an established tank for about a month before it will be cycled and can be used. I don't normally bother with one in a quarantine tank with salt. If you keep the feeding down, (just a small amount every couple of days), and do regular water changes, that will dilute any ammonia produced and help keep the water clean enough during the treatment. The fish won't starve during that time and should be fine without lots of food.

So I have added about 4 tablespoons of salt per 20 litres, and I am waiting for the tank to warm up and the salt to melt. Are you sure its ok to add the fish directly to the water like this (once its warmed up)? I'm just a bit worried it will be a big shock to them as it seems like a lot of salt!