Fellas, you'd be interested to know that here in Queensland, Australia there is no less than 10 breeders of BGK's. 1 of which has about 8 breeding pairs. It was from actual breeders both past and present that I was first of all told, then shown how to sex them. When I was actually shown how to do it I was shown breeding pairs and it took a bit of time to be able to pick up exactly what to look for and how to do it but it is DEFINATELY POSSIBLE. Point to note is that these fish were 30-35cm and it was hard enough with fish that were that size to sex, what size fish are you trying to start out sexing with? Just because you haven't read it doesn't mean it's not true, as a lot of information still isn't known about these fish or is just plain wrong, as is the case with a well known "fact" that has appeared in numerous sites about BGK's and how they don't eat flake. They do, as I'm sure you and a lot of others are aware of but is still information that is offered by others. Since having learnt how to sex them I have taken every opportunity to sex every one I have come across and it is getting easier the more I do it, however it still takes time and I know of at least 1 person who can basically sex on sight with no dramas and no second looks. So try and get in the good books with a breeder and maybe they will show you first hand, if not with the information I have given you it should be a skill that is achievable, otherwise your on your own. Hope this helps.
Cheers,
Bryce.