Curiosity101
Is now at University! :D
I'm gonna be difficult. In a tank that receives no water changes, the issue with loss of buffing capacity (kH/GH) has to do with the nitrogen cycle. The end product nitrate can form HNO3(nitric acid) which is what causes that loss in pH. As you let a tank go without waterchanges more and more nitrate is produced, which reaches a equilibrium of NO3- and HNO3 depending on other factors in the water. Now as more HNO3 is produced it eats away at the KH/GH or the bases in the water that make up the buffering capacity. A tank will continue to do this till the buffering capacity is greatly diminished, then your pH will crash because HNO3 as an acid is still being produced but the tank has ran out of the molecules that normally react with it. This is a pH crash also know as old tank syndrome. Now there are two ways to try to avoid this. Plants take in nitrates and reducing NO3- effects the equilibrium and also reduces HNO3. They also consume NH3+ preventing NO3- from forming. The issue is that plants will also take a toll on water hardness factors Mg+2 and Ca+2. If you have really hard water with high KH a tank will be stable for a long time. If you are aware and pay attention to the buffering capacity of your water, you could just throw a tums tablet in when it gets low.
You aren't being difficult... you're saying exactly what everyone else had said...