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I personally didn't have any marine tanks - but my sister had about 5 of varying sizes (At the time we were even living in the same house. Sadly she moved countries and no longer has a specimen license and the Indian ocean on her doorstep, so no tanks for her at the moment.Whew..most of us came from FW, right? What's a little bothersome is someone WITHOUT marine experience DISSUADING someone from becoming a marine aquarist.
Cheap? No. But it doesn't have to be a bank breaker.
Easy? Uh, at times, no. Challenging is a better term.
Learning curve? Yes.
Rewarding? Priceless.
You know, I love my 46 gallon FW, but, since starting a marine tank, I walk thru the FW aisles and go right back to marine. Just can't beat the colors, diversity, variety, symbiotic relationships, etc. So, I wouldn't dissuade anyone. HOWEVER, I DO AGREE that Nemo's are not gifts, but committments. BIG COMMITTMENTS. Better be sure the two of you want enter the marine aquarium world. SH
Her tanks were not mine to look after, maintain and pay the upkeep - but think I have a pretty good clue about what goes into Marine keeping. I wouldn't be as foolish to speak about something I really have absolutely no clue about
I think "my" biggest concern is that this is a gift - yes, even if for a girlfriend - this is a gift tagged with some serious commitment, passion and funding linked to it for many years to come. Who's responsibility will it ultimately be ?
As I say, I don't want to be a party pooper but there's nothing romantic about potentially neglected fish.