Overdue update, dad fulfilled his duties and now has a peaceful 10gal tank full of tannin from oak leaves and driftwood. Mom's fins are healing up just fine and she's acting as per usual, like a pig.
Babies are getting bigger, but still look like specs. They're eating some of the smaller micro worms and seem to be doing well. Not a huge number of them but then again it's hard to count tiny specs in a 10gal with plants and substrate. I have a pair of amano shrimp and my brown male cherries in with the fry to help clean up uneaten food, they don't seem to bother the fry. I'll be doing their first water change here shortly.