thank you so much for the good information. This is definitely the right fish.... the bad part is i am a beginner... My tank is only 10 gallons and is heavily planted so far. my parameters are ph 8.1, ammonia 0.0ppm nitrite 0.0ppm nitrate 0.0ppm and temp i brought it down to . my water is super hard and my ph is high and going nowhere so i at least have that going for me. So far "she"? doesn't seem to aggressive although all i have are about 10 ghost shrimp. I've been feeding her brine shrimp in the morning and mysis shrimp in the evening because that is what the fish store owner was. but one article says i need to add some vegetation to it's diet. What types should i do or should i just let it eat what is currently in there and see what happens? I have no idea why the store owner didn't know what it was. if i had known she was a cichlid i would have gone with something easier. although she does look really cool so far... it sounds like she was probably just hiding by the largest thing in the tank the heater. so i'm going to get some rocks or decoration to give her a hidy hole. My current substrate is some crushed coral alot of plant substrate and some larger size gravel.
I would love some more information and ideas for this fish i will be on most of the night to answer any other questions and provide pictures.