I'm not just "arguing" with you, I hope you realize that, because you are raising very creditable issues but where's there's evidence to refute something it is necessary to put it out there.
Aquatic plants will rapidly take up ammonia. You will never be able to have ammonia above zero with our basic (but reliable) test kits any more than with bacteria doing the ammonia oxidation. And with plants there is no nitrite or nitrate resulting. These benefits exist in any balanced natural (low-tech) planted tank. Getting the plants growing faster by using diffused CO2 is not going to increase these benefits. But there are real serious detriments. In order for added CO2 to benefit, the light has to be more intense than it would otherwise, and this is a serious issue for many forest fish--cardinal tetras for example have what Baensch & Rhiel termed a light phobia. Also, the other nutrients have to be increased as well, to maintain the light/nutrient balance, or the CO2 will just cause problem algae, and this is not going to benefit fish, especially soft water species, quite the reverse. So adding the CO2 not only causes harm on its own, but the accompanying necessary increases in light and fertilizers have additional harm.
As for the CO2, it is a delicate balance easily tipped. I noticed the Corydoras in my 70g tank with plants were respirating very heavily in the morning, but not after a few hours. It was the additional CO2 created at night that caused it. I increased the surface disturbance and it went away, and ever since the respiration has been normal in the morning or any time. It does not take much.
Stress takes a toll on fish, slowly and unseen but still the damage is being done. We must never do anything that increases stress just to have whatever for our own benefit.
Many who run high-tech planted tanks have few or even no fish in the tanks. There is considerable wisdom in that.