As mentioned, I have fought the good fight against nitrates in my source (well) water. I live in the 'country' across the road from a 95 acre farmers field that gets ample manure and chemical fertilizers.
As we all know, you remove nitrates from the aquarium with partial water changes, but this becomes impossible with high nitrates in your source water.
I experimented with Seachem Matrix/DeNitrate and Stability in an attempt to culture anaerobic bacteria to convert nitrates into nitrogen gas. Sadly, these attempts never produced positive results. At the same time I invested in a now discontinued API Tap Water Filter. It worked but the cartridge use life relative to the cost was about as expensive as buying bottled water. I later emptied a cartridge and filled it with API Nitra-Zorb and pre-filter water for water changes. The resin used is rechargeable many times with aquarium or (non iodized) table salt. API Nitra-zorb comes in pouches that can be placed in your filter to reduce nitrates. Although this approach works and the pouches are rechargeable with salt, the use life is reduced as the media eventually becomes compromised with detritus. However, this may be an answer, or partial answer for you.
There are also inline nitrate filters that are typically used for refrigerators, ice machines and such. With a simple adapter you just hook to your sink.
You 'could' go the route of an RO or RO/DI system, but I ruled them out. A good system is not cheap, uses about 4 gallons for every gallon of RO water and in my case, would require an additional pump for sufficient water pressure to force water through the membrane. In addition, you need to add 'stuff' to adjust for minerals and pH.
So....you either filter your source water and/or use a de-nitrate resin (like API Nitra-Zorb) in your filter to keep nitrates at bay. Alternatively, you might haul water for water changes from a nearby nitrate free source - but that gets old pretty quickly!
Having written ALL of that, a planted tank of fast growing plants (especially floaters) can go a long way in reducing tank generated nitrates AS IS good routine tank maintenance and using a sand rather than gravel substrate.
Tank on!