It's fine to be a girl and to be 13, but fishyluver, please understand that when you make rude posts and ask for advice but then become belligerent about the answers, it is going to make people feel frustrated. Additionally you told someone to "speak sum english," but you, yourself do not take the time to spell out your words correctly or use proper sentences.
Generally the argument I hear is that "well ppl no what i mean so thats what counts," but the fact of the matter is, speaking like this makes you look unintelligent to the rest of the people here. I am not saying that you are unintelligent, but I am saying that is how you are presenting yourself. You can hardly expect to combine that with biting criticism and be welcomed warmly here.
We have a lot of information and a lot of answers that we can share with those who come here with questions, but you have to let us answer. You have to be willing to listen. You do not have to take our advice, but you should at least be considerate and respectful. You *did* come here on your own to ask for our help. We didn't hunt you down to force it down your throat. The catfish you have can grow to be five feet long. We on this board do not agree with keeping a fish that you will simply get rid of later on when he grows too big. Those are the facts of life here, and if you want someone to confirm with you that you are doing a good job and you should buy as many fish as you like and keep them in as small of a tank as you like, then please try looking for another board.
-Nerwign