But if you also want to reduce the GH, the only method is by diluting the source water with the addition of "pure" water. You can reduce the GH/KH proportionally, or you could go all the way and use just pure water which would be zero GH/KH with an acidic pH resulting in the aquarium. @seangee follows this method (so far as I know). This would obviously solve the nitrate problem too. "Pure" water means RO usually, though distilled is also pure. [And rainwater can be used depending upon location, etc, just for those interested in the whole story.]
If you intend soft water fish species only, the full RO (pure) water option is safe. There is no need to re-mineralize for most soft water species. I am fortunate to have basically zero GH/KH source water, and I add nothing to raise GH or KH. The pH will naturally be acidic, which suits soft water species most of them anyway.