Welcome to the forum!
I hate social media - don't do facebook, Twitter, insta etc, but a forum like this is different. You could spend a decade here without ever revealing anything about yourself, and no one would mind. It's not about that! We're not competing with each other, we're not collated and sorted so we only see people similar to us etc. Very different purpose and atmosphere from most social media!
We're just all aquarium hobbyists.
We try to help each other out where we can, share our tanks sometimes (if you want, never pressured) share our successes and losses, learn from others in the hobby, stuff like that. It's always nice to have new people join!