Credit where credit is due... You did rehome the Bala and that was the right thing to do
Yes you keep repeating yourself and saying you would of gotten a bigger tank for it so your intentions were good... But, that tank as stated by myself and "NOTG" would of needed to been huge.. Like 12ftx3x3 for a group of around 10 as "NOTG" said you may have for away with slightly smaller if you got a smaller group but that's missing the point... These fish need large groups and therefore very large tanks to do well and so the average fish keeper can't accommodate their needs. As they are so smaller when being sold a lot of people don't realise their potential size an requirements. Iv seen loads of threads on here with people falling into the trap from local fish stores selling them in insufficient numbers to people with tanks too small for them. Like the others members have said, fish stores just want to make a sale and they will do pretty much anything to get it. It's harsh but when that fish leaves their store a lot of them couldn't care less what happens... The best one I like that you come across a lot is when fish stores test your tank water for you an then they just say "yes, your tank water is FINE"... What is "fine"? Then they will sell you bottled formulas that will apparently improve that "fine" water..
Like I said, you did the right thing by rehoming the Bala, hopefully someone will come along and purchase them and they will have a huuuge tank waiting
Oh thank you, I was going to go to bed but just found your post. I would have liked 2 of them in a larger tank but decided to return him. He will probably end up in someone else's 10 gal tank and get big and I just hope that owner gets him more space. I had my tank water tested just to see what they'd say and I was given a paper with answers in numbers. I don't have it here by my table but like you said, they told me my water "was fine." I looked at the paper and there was one number that was low and they asked if I had just done a water change, and I did a partial one, then was told that was why this number was low, nothing to worry about. But I see what you mean about selling people bottles of stuff to help their fine water. I have several things here in case I need them like ammonia safe, clearwater, easy balance, start zyme, a pH one, and always have tons of de-chlorinator. I have extra filter cartridges, rocks, heater, air stone, etc. Also many kinds of food. That reminds me I better feed my RCC's, they are lined up on that driftwood as if they are looking at me. I am glad you wrote, especially the water testing. It still bothers me the store would not separate the balas from the red tails. The bala I had here was very peaceful, I'll miss him.