Still cycling my tanks, so take my advice with a grain of salt, but... Jay I think you are missing an important step - you need to add enough ammonia to get your water up to 2 ppm or even 3 ppm. Add the ammonia, wait 15 or 20 minutes for it to mix into your water and use your test kit to see if you have reached that level. If you haven't add more ammonia and again test 15 minutes later. Once you reach that 2ppm you will have an idea of how much ammonia you need to add each day to keep your bacteria fed.
After that is pretty much a waiting game as you feed your tank ammonia each day and monitor your levels, doing a PWC when nitrates and/or ph change enough to warrant it.
I did a 75% PWC last night as my nitrite and nitrate readings were off the chart, though ammonia is returning to zero quickly. Even after that large of a water change I still have high nitrites and nitrates, so I will do another large PWC tonight. Like you I am trying to be patient as I wait, but it has made me rethink my filtering, aquascaping, fish choices... so hopefully once my tank is ready I will be a little more prepared then if I had gone out and gotten fish right away.