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You can close this thread if you like, but i am not directing this opinion towards any particular member and i am just making a general statment of my opinion and hopefully it may make people think twice before they argue about fish rights/walmart/rescue bettas.
To start, i want to adress some of the main issues roughly and their arguements;

"Everytime you buy a sick betta from a bad lfs, you are only finacially supporting the lfs"

"Anyone who leaves a dying betta on a shelf in a bad lfs who can take it in but leaves it there to rot and die is a bad person"

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My opinion: Yes, it is true that when you buy a sick betta from a bad lfs you are only supporting bad lfs and incouraging them to buy more bettas and as far as they see it, if people are willing to buy their sick bettas just as much as the healthy ones, there is no reason for them to stop doing this. You may buy the betta knowing or not knowing/not taking this aspect into consideration, but it does not change the fact that all you have done is put some money into their wallets. I don't blame people for following their heart and trying to save the betta, its what most people would do with any heart in their body, but you have to consider this action will only result in more bettas on the shelves- for every betta you buy it pays for another to be put on the shelf or more.

On the other hand, contacting the owner of the store and making a complaint about their ways or making a scene at the store in front of other customers like loudly saying "i can't believe this betta is rotting on the shelves and the cruel size of container it is in!! Im going to a better lfs than this hell hole!!" etc will do more good than quietly taking the fish off the shelf and buying it.

The main difference is, is if you don't make your feelings heard to the owner, staff or customers at the store at the time you are doing nothing but paying for more bettas to be put on the shelf in the same way.
If you've bought a dying betta and not done anything else at the time on this type of issue, you cannot deny all you have done is give money to the store for them to carry on their wicked ways- this doesn't make you a bad person at all if you didn't take these factors into consideration, but you shouldn't kid yourself otherwise that you are doing a good thing in preventing more bettas being put on the shelves if you knew it would only fatten the stores pockets.

Either way you cannot deny that everytime you buy a sick betta you are only supporting the store. Where do lfs get their main profits from? Fish! They sell fish to make money, you buy the fish, they make some money, the more money they get the more fish end up on their shelves. As simple as that.
The best thing to do in my opinion is not only leave the betta but to also make a formal complaint and/or make a scene at the store about their ways. That way the store doesn't profit but it does have to consider its ways.


b. Newb threads- i was only talking about this the other day and yet i have seen another prime example of an innocent newb call for help/advice thread turn into an arguement about animal rights/walmart and other related anger (Why does every betta person asume that when somone saves a betta they live in the US and got the fish from walmart? I for one live in england, and we don't have any walmarts here and don't even have betta cups).

If a newb asks for help, give them the help they need but do NOT turn the thread into anything Walmart/fish protestor related as anyone here with an ounce of experience with this forum knows that these threads always turn nasty and that is not the image we want to project onto newb's about our forum.
If you feel you want to adress somones comment on the thread but know you only bring up the subject of fish rights/walmart, send them a pm adressing your views on their comments politely or start up your own thread, but don't turn somone elses thread into your fight.
Also if you want to make a comment on walmart/fish rights on a thread that has not been been tainted with that issue, do your own thread so that if there is going to be any argueing going on, the other person doesn't have to put up with it taking up every page in their thread.

The betta section is by far the least varied in some respects, the most arguementive and bad tempered and also the most repetive in terms of arguements.
My opinion: If you want to get across to newb's to the forum and/or fish keeping, be nice to them, give them good calm advice. Be patient with them and keep your temper in check, try to divert more of your post energy into being positive and making this section a more varied one.
If you want to talk to a newb about Walmart, break them into the debate/issue slowly and don't chuck them in the deep end- also when you explain things to them, try not to let your own emoticions taint your explanations and advice of the issue.

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I have some more stuff i'd like to adress, but i think this will sufice for now.
 
big sigh & deep breath - hasn't all this been harped to absolute death and infinity ? :/

I am SICK of it.
 
bloozoo2 said:
big sigh & deap breath - hasn't all this been harped to absolute death and infinity ? :/

I am SICK of it.
That may be but there seems so much debate over such a simple concept, and i find it difficult to watch this kind of stuff going on everyday, even if you want to dismiss this thread and by all means do if you are tired of it, i suppose i just wanted to speak on the subject.
 
Tokis, with all due respect, you have just summarised that which has already had the life wrung out of it, beaten and bled to death.
Honestly - what on earth more can there be said about it ?
Why add to this whole (I almost want to swear) debate ?

What you have just said is not new - is just the same old stuff.


Really really - can't we just PLEASE let it be and get on with it ?
 
bloozoo2 said:
Tokis, with all due respect, you have just summarised that which has already had the life wrung out of it, beaten and bled to death.
Honestly - what on earth more can there be said about it ?
Why add to this whole (I almost want to swear) debate ?

What you have just said is not new - is just the same old stuff.


Really really - can't we just PLEASE let it be and get on with it ?
Its not new but then neither is walmart, but we still hear about it everyday here.

There are certain individuals i suppose i am directing this thread to a small extent, if you disagree with what i say speak now, but if you continue your ways and have read this thread then i have little respect for you, maybe even less than that.


This should be the full stop to the debate, the winter to the summer flower, the night to the day- the official red dwarf to the world of this debate.
 
Tokis-Phoenix said:
This should be the full stop to the debate, the winter to the summer flower, the night to the day- the official red dwarf to the world of this debate.
in the perfect world...you're right...but right now you're fueling the fire, unfortunately...
 
I agree Tokis and bloozoo...and yet...we all know it won't be.

There are so many members with so many differing opinions..that there is never going ot be enough time or space for them all to be gotten out. Because for every opinion that is expressed 20 others crop up aftewards. Opinions change and are added to constantly.

With every opinion we, as an individual, express here (for example)...you add to the opinions of everyone else on this board. When they express their opinion it adds to the opinions of everyone else..and so on and so forth....it's a never ending cycle.

We "should" (in a perfect world) all agree to either agree/disagree and let bygones be bygones...but that won't happen. It's just not in the human nature to let things go easily. -_- We are competative by nature..and expressing opinions seems to be, by far, one of the most competative processes around.
 
If this becomes a debate, as long as it is the last, i will be happy .

I know this could be seen as adding coal to the fire of the issue, but i hoped i wrote my opinion in a way that was the least arguementive or debatable and so not to cause arguement.
 
Tokis, I find it impossible to see why you want yet another debate on the betta forum. Have you somehow missed the countless debates over the past months ?
This thread, along with all the others, is just going to turn into a childish mudsling and be closed before long.

Good luck - I'm out of this "debate".
 
Its not new but then neither is walmart, but we still hear about it everyday here.
not if wuv's about you won't,
The betta section is by far the least varied in some respects, the most arguementive and bad tempered and also the most repetive in terms of arguements.
you have just added to it!


at the end of the day this is a fish forum chill out, if you want to get your point across write one of your little speaches and post to all your lfs and go and rant at them, actions speak louder than words :thumbs: , i for one wouldn't pay for a sick fish i would demand it for free :nod:
 
Tokis-Phoenix said:
I know this could be seen as adding coal to the fire of the issue, but i hoped i wrote my opinion in a way that was the least arguementive or debatable and so not to cause arguement.
i agree you have done that to the best of your ability, however, people WILL twist it around and turn it into a debate and argument ...i just hope it gets closed before that happens...we DO appreciate your views and ways of approaching these topics, however, there are some that will argue just for argument's sake.. it's a twisted world we live in :no:
 
abstract said:
i agree you have done that to the best of your ability, however, people WILL twist it around and turn it into a debate and argument
If that isn't the nail being hit on the head I dunno what is.

Everyone has gotten to touchy and sensitive around here lately that they can't see what is being said for what they think is being said instead.

Good call abstract (oops lmao..hope you didn't see that :*) ) :thumbs:
 
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