do their bites hurt?? Ive been nipped by my females before but it didnt really hurt. Do the males have bigger mouths or something so they can get more flesh?? But then again maybe my girls' bites dont hurt cause they arent really being aggressive, just nipping curiously to see what my finger is doing in their "house".
BTW I think your man is very handsome! I have been thinking of getting one and adding him to my other tank since Im afraid he'll rip my girls apart!