Cal.
If you add a male, you can almost guarantee that there will be baby bistlenoses before too long.
You need to be sure you can deal with that correctly before adding a male.
Chooklet,
Hang in there. You have added your male to a female with an existing territory. Mine took a while to get used to each other when I did that.
You will also see alot less of the male than the female. Just the way it is.
Cheers.
Ian.