Thank you, i do appreciate you advice, at least you are trying to offer help.
Just a bit confused as to how fish i have had for 18-20 months, are not having a good life? They seem to be doing well to me.
It's exactly the scenario I described to you about the person living in a room. Put yourself in your fishes shoes, think about how they are living their lives. No or few friends, crowded living space, poor sanitation and water quality (air qualty equivalent). You could look at the person - they may have a healthy and balanced diet, and therefore be in a good physical state. "Yeah, they look like they're getting on fine" could be an accurate
observation. However, if you actually asked them about their lives, what do you think their answer would be?
If you are a good fish keeper and want the best for your fish, you will change your stocking and your tank, turn a new leaf and start again. Most LFS will take in unwanted fish, or if you are unable to do so, I am sure some people on here would be happy to take them off of your hands.