I really dont get what you are trying to prove Saedcantas his fish keeping ways are his and about his illness that is non of your business if hes too ill to let people COME TO HIS HOUSE then its perfectly fine im sure if you were ill you would'nt like people to see you ? his illness has nothing to do with you so keep his personal reasons out of it.
Yes you have a lot of valid points but points which are becoming out of order and to do with his personal well being which it should not be all about this forum is to post friendly comments and suggestions to other members and if you dont understand that thurally dont post.
Regards Tropicman
Exactly my point,
Why does HE CHOOSE to make such a point of his personal wellbeing in almost every topic he makes. It's really nothing to do with anyone else so why do we keep having to hear about it?
If it prevents him from meeting up with people to buy or sell then that should between him and them as you say, so why isnt it?
It's attention seeking, I'm sorry.
Peoples fishkeeping choices are their own to an extent until it becomes wanton disregard for animals lives. At which point are you honestly arguing that he has every right to come on here talking about how all the smaller fish in this tank will get eaten and he doesnt care and we should all just smile and nod and say what a nice tank it is?
How am I out of order?
I havent been offensive to anyone, I havent used rude words or directly insulted anyone.
"this forum is to post friendly comments and suggestions to other members "
No. It isnt, it is a forum to allow fishkeepers, hobbyists and professionals alike to share information, learn more about their chosen species and gain insight in their chosen hobby.
If we only ever came here to say "friendly" things every single topic would consist of "ooh nice tank" x 20 or "I dont know what's wrong with your fish and I'm not going to ask for your water stats, but we can all be friends instead!"
I for one have no interest in offering knowledge to others on a forum where it is misconstrued as you always being "nasty". If people arent here to do the best for their animals, why are they here?