Mojo, the listing that I posted earlier leads to a club called COAST that meets in Costa Mesa. I also see a club listing for a killie club that meets in Seal Beach, which is only an hour from most of OC. The FAAS does not show them all.
Lokemer and Shi, the same listing lists a club that meet in Fairfax VA. The FAAS site again does not add anything.
For Jenste, there is a listing on our site for a RI club called Tropical Fish Society of Rhode Island that meets in Riverside the third Wednesday of each month at the ASPCA building.
For Erk, there is a club in Columbus that is less than 2 hours away.
Hughessomefish, there is a listing for a club that meets in Westport and another that meets in Manchester.
I looks like the best freshwater reference we have for the Albany area is way off in Manchester CT. There is a a reef club right in Albany and I would bet they know the local clubs better than we ever will. You might try contacting them Loraxchick.
I never did find any HI references Mystus. Although your area is well known for its fish farms, there are no clubs listed here or in the FAAS listing.
For Krib, you already know your local club and I see you at their auctions and at my club's auctions. I suspect you now how to make those critical contacts to find other hobbyists.
I didn't do anything magic here, just spent a few minutes with the TFF club listing for the US and on Yahoo maps to try to determine what was close and what was not for each person's listed location.
The same could be done using the UK listing but I don't know what is close to what else in the UK.