Just a little update for anyone who is intrested:
I left the female in the tank last night even after she raided the nest and ate some eggs ( because she still seemed to what to spawn ).
Got home from work to day and the male was still trying to get her under the nest, and she wasn't having none of it. So instead of removing her totaly like last time , and having the male blitz the nest and eat the eggs. I decided to put her into one of those breeding traps used for live bearing fish ( Minus the V shaped bit ).
So anyway up to now the male is still tending the nest, and not going to far from it. I just hope the're some chance of eggs left in there.