My pattern with normani makes those fry precious. They should grow into hardy, healthy fish.
I haven't seen problems of males killing females here.
There is something off with the farmed ones. Wilds were foolishly easy to breed. I once had too many and was keeping juveniles in a tub on the floor beside my tanks. They were almost adults, and friend asked me for 50. That was pretty well what was in there, so I caught them all. I was busy, so the sponge filter kept running in the bare plastic tub. When I looked in it was full of fry. No cover, only a sponge to hide eggs in (and the eggs are a good size) and I had dozens and dozens more of them.
The last 3 times I've bought Singapore normani, I could barely get fry. My current group have obliged, but with a dozen fry in a period wilds would have produced hundreds. The fish is widespread - I saw them in shipments from all along the coast from Guinea to Nigeria. I'm wondering if they've crossed similar looking species. Or, if raising them too warm could be the issue - they thrive in the low 20s and Asian fishfarms are warmer than that.
We have the mysteries of nature, but also the mysteries of human intervention.