Okay guys, i went to my LFS yesterday and pick up a female apisto nijsseni and a male german blue ram that i'm trying to hook up with my female. The problem is that my female is huge and the male that I bought is half the size of the female. As soon as i put the male on the tank the female is chasing it all over the place, I'm worried that she would end up killing her new tank mate cause she did kill my other female ram. What should I do??? I'm thinking of getting 2 more female rams to distribute her agression, but I think i would be overstocking if I do that??? Any Ideas people?