Several years ago I went in the local pharmacy to find things not operating as usual. There was a large spider sitting on a shelf and the female pharmacist, female shop assistants and a couple of female customers were in a panic. I am female as well, but spiders (British spiders at least) don't phase me. I asked for a container of some sort and a piece of card, which were quickly supplied. Cup over the spider, and slide the card underneath taking care not to trap any legs, then outside into the car park, remove the card and shake the spider free. Then business went back to usual.