Aggressive is the word--the gourami Triichopodus trichopterus, in any of the varieties (same species selectively bred) is probably the most aggressive and nasty of all the small and medium-sized species of gourami. Not only would you likely have issues among the gourami themselves but other non-gourami fish may be severely attacked--and this is not confined to males, females have been known to single-handedly kill every other species in the tank.
Pearl Gourami are much less aggressive, and real beauties in a small group.
You've mentioned cichlids--these and gourami should not be combined. It is true that the dwarf cichlids (like Apistogramma species) do tend to remain near the substrate, and gourami tend to remain in the upper third, but it is best avoided.
There are some lovely larger but peaceful tetras--I had a group of Bleeding Heart Tetras in my 5-foot 115g Amazon riverscape, and swimming together mid-water they were very colourful. This fish has been in the hobby a long time, but it can be well worth having.