In Memory Of Deborah

[Leedsboi86]

Hello everyone,

Sorry to post this here but I know my mum has started looking at this forum and reading the posts and I'm sure she will read this one.

This post is for thw most wonderful, bright and amazeing girl that I had the great pride to call my sister,
She passed away on the date of 20/12/97 from injury in a hit n run accident on our way home from school, She not only saved my life but another girls aswell by pushing us out of the way when a car ran a red light at the schools crossing.

She was a amazeing girl who loved all animals especialy her cat Sox that misses her dearly. She will be remeberd by everyone she met as she touched there heart in a special way.
It's a tragedy that such a bright angel had to burn out so young and so easly her shine will continue and she will never be forgotten!

As it pains me to right this and finally admit that shes gone.. I know she will never leave me.

I just wanted to write this to show her and everyone that she was here and she's the reason I still am and I owe her everything for that and I will never let her go.

And to my Mum who I can only imagine how much suffering and pain she went through having to see her own daughter spend 3 days in a coma only to pass away from us and so near Christmas.

R.I.P Deborah
Your soul will always be strong
Your spirit will never burn out
Your mind will never be lost
Your beauty will always remain
Our love for you is eternal

 

[Judmacaroni]

My thoughts are with you at this time. It is very brave of you to put this out there but well done it is so hard to come to terms with losses like that and my heart goes out to you and your family. you'll never get over losing her but you'll learn to carry on and and become a stronger person by learning to cope.

I lost my brother 6 yrs ago to an undiagnosed heart conditon that took him very suddenly, I understand how hard it is to see any joy in christmas when there is so obviously someone missing from your life.

Keep your family close and always be there for them and try to understand what their going through too. You are all in this together. stay strong.

xox

 

[Breeze7050]

So sorry for both your losses. A hard time of year for it. I too understand where you are both coming from as this is the 2 year anniversary of my dad's death. May the all RIP.
With the burden of all the sadness may everyone still have a happy holiday and know that they are all with us in spirit.

 

[black angel]

I am so sorry you lost your sister in such an horrific way and at what should be a happy time of year as well

Can i ask how old she was?

Words just fail me.

I hope they got the driver of the car and I hope you and your mum find some comfort in that what she did saved you.

Give your mum a big hug from me as anyone who has children will be feeling her pain.

And of course a hug for you too

 

[Leedsboi86]

Driver was asian not using his own licence, Drunk, Drugged he got 3 years let out after 1......

My sister was 15

 

[dogfood]

What does race have anything to do with irresponsible drivers? Would it really matter if the driver was black, white, hispanic?

 

[cane76]

thats awful
there is no proper justice for people who commit these type of crimes
out in one year thats a disgrace

 

[stang1]

I'm so sorry for your loss Leedsboi, it's awful that justice wasn't served as it should have been.
My thoughts are with you, I know how hard it can be. I lost one of my brothers 14 years ago a week before Christmas and I know how much our family went to pieces. I lost another brother 4 years ago and sadly my Mum died in August this year. My daughters other Grandma also died in September this year. It is a difficult time but you will get through it and having the rest of your family around you will make it that little bit easier.
Have a toast to her at Christmas and as Breeze said she is still with you in spirit.
Best wishes and my thoughts are with you and your mum.

 

[linda1503]

That is so heartbreaking, I am so sorry for your loss. I do think that the law needs changing to make these drivers pay for what they do when they get in a car drunk, drugged or whatever. To kill someone in this terrible way is made more distressing for the families left behind when they are jailed for such a short time and then are free to carry on driving when the family have to live without a loved one for the rest of their lives. Please accept my sincere condolences.

 

[halfbloodprincess]

Now I am sad. I am so sorry for your loss. Stay strong and have the best holiday you can.

 

[WILDER]

My thoughts are with you and your family, so sorry.

 

[Loobie]

Makes you think when you have kids of your own.

My thoughts are with you, try to enjoy your Xmas

 

[madmom]

Sorry about your loss. It's a shame when a drunk unlicensed driver kills someone and gets only one year in jail. The laws need to be changed.

 

[Leedsboi86]

Thank you everyone
very kind of you all