I can't stand Harry Potter either. However; I don't mind if others are obsessed with it. Hey we've all got something in which we're a little more invested thatn we ought to be don't we?
I don't see the appeal of H.P. only because I've never enjoyed fantasy and magic. I consider myself to be a deeply religious person but the darkness in the H.P. series doesn't offend me. That stuff is pure fiction, made up in another person's imagination so to each his own I guess.
I tend to be drawn to literature that deals with the real world. I don't usually even enjoy reading fiction because of this, I prefer a good history book or a scientific publication. But again, others can't get enough of the Dragons and magic spells and that's fine with me.
The only thing I see as a problem is when people are so into these sort of things that they begin to affect the way they interact with other people. I've met a few who can't help but have hard feelings when I tell them that I never got through the first H.P. book, they can't let it alone that I've somehow missed out on something great. It's even happened where a few have harbored ill feelings toward me simply because I don't like Harry Potter.
Doesn't really matter in the end thought does it?
SLC