I have two crown bettas, one has those really really long fins and one is short. i'm sure the one with long nice fins is a male but what about the other one? how can i tell if its a male or female? I thought it was a female in the begining but its really really aggressive, flares up like 4/5th of the times when it sees another betta. Could it be a child? it has short fins like the female pictures i saw of crowntails.