Heaters are often unnecessary. Too much heat shortens the lives of many fish.
Fish in cycling is fine if you use your brains. I've cycled with fish that were still thriving 7-8 years later. How you cycle is dependent on the mineral content of your water, and you pH. If I had hard water with ammonia production, I'd do things differently, but soft water with ammonium can be approached differently. The best way to cycle is to make friends with a human who keeps fish and cycle your filters in their tanks.
There is only one absolute:
Every species is distinct, and you must learn how it lives. There are no such things as "fish", but there are a lot of similar but different lifeforms that if we keep them, we owe them respect and proper care. One size fits all is a great fish killing way of thinking.
Close to absolute in my world?
You must do regular water changes with all fish.
You must design the tank for the fish first, and not try to make them fit your plans. Plan for them.
Pet store employees aren't the problem. Uninformed shoppers are. We need to do that extra bit of self education before we go to buy. Once you know enough to discuss, you can learn a lot from EXPERIENCED fish clerks. But if you haven't done your homework, you can't have a critical approach to anything - fish included. Our hobby has its own versions of conspiracies and slack thinking. Plus if you want to buy a car, it helps to know what wheels are (speaking as a person who is not mechanically inclined!).
Don't decide you want to do something. then reject all forum advice until someone says what you want to hear.
Plus, I have known a lot of aquarists who wanted to keep a certain fish considered difficult. They did their homework, set up well and established routines, and enjoyed a species that they wanted to enjoy. Don't be afraid unless you know you leave things undone a lot.