im getting 1 male and 2 female honey gouramis but i cant remember how you find out which is male and female is it the males top fin is pointer at the back or the females cant remember lol any1 tell me?
If you are getting wild coloured honeys, males are tan, females are silver beige. Though in the shop tank, they'll be quite stressed and the males will be pale. Look for the fish with the most colour (male) and the two with the least, especially if they also have a brown stripe from nose to tail (female).
With the yellow colour morph, females often have a stripe, but those without one could be male or female.
Red colour morph, I can never tell the difference