You can wash kit in tap water. I've also taken to something TTA (I think) suggested recently for cleaning, which was along the lines of running the filter on a bucket of weak bleach solution (can't remember exactly what he suggested, but that's what I ended up doing, but I also buy dechlorinator in bulk crystal form).
UV sterilisers are odd bits of kit, they rely on a balance between power and flow rate. The options are to size the pump perfectly, or the power correctly, so that the flow through the kit is correct for it's power, or to run it on a separate loop with a valve to control it's flow rate. My personal approach has always been to run them on a separate loop, as it avoids issues with mulm in the filter slowing the flow and messing up the uv, but then I haven't run one in a long time.