xxBarneyxx
Fish Aficionado
1. Three bad ideas here. First, playsand (silica sand) is not the best for marine tanks since it does not buffer like aragonite sand or crushed coral does. Second, silica sand can be very sharp and detrimental to burrowing fish/inverts. Third, sand beds can store medications only to release them at bad times. Solution; go to your local landscaping or hardware store with some vinegar. Test the sands there by placing them in the vinegar and watching them bubble/fizz. If they fizz for one minute or less, they're just silica. If it keeps fizzing/bubbling beyond 1 minute, you've got aragonite based sand.
2. Ah the water difficulties in Australia. Unfortunately there's no substitute for RO water. However there is one other option that may be "safe" enough. Run tapwater through a carbon filter such as a Brita filter, or one designed for filtering tapwater (common on fridge water/ice makers). This will remove pollutants and harmful chemicals like chlorine/chloramine/bromine, etc. Then run the carbon-filtered water through a Polypad to remove any copper to make life safe for inverts. If you do not plan on keeping inverts ever, you do not need the polypad step as copper is not detrimental to fish (at least not in the concentrations found in tapwater). This will make the water "safe" for fish, but it will not and cannot remove nitrates, phosphates, and silicates which may lead to algae blooms.
what is a polypad? never heard of them.
I think it is just like filter wool, except in a "pad" form.