A quick update.
The good news is that the female is spawning regularly every week (every 5 to 10 days)
On the progress front it isn't such a succes story do far. The first fry I got as pictured above is so far the only survivor since this all began and is looking like a miniature version of the others. Probably about 2cm nose to tail now at 2 months or so old
I have been trying several methods so far and yet to find one where the fry survive.
Originally they stayed in the net in the main tank for a week after hatching and I had lots of survivors. Then transferring them to the small tank seemed to mean only the older stronger on e survived. Probably new tank syndrome at this point and the older one was 2 weeks old at the time.
I have since tried to transfer them the day they hatch, 2 days after etc but this filter (MP400 with modded sponge attachment) is too strong for the tank. The Fry have to sit on the substrate or get spun around all over the place in the current. I think this is what is killing them at the mo.
Therefore I have ordered a 200lph external which is half the turnover of this powerhead and should hopefully 'calm the waters'
The tiny 10W heater that is in this tank is a 'permanent on' type which should raise temp to 5ºC above ambient. The water temp has been getting to 29ºC in a house where the thermostat is set to 18ºC!!!!! I don't think it is the heaters fault at the moment. I am pretty sure that the powerhead is heating the water and then the heater is going a further 5ºC above that so the new external should sort that problem out.
I have also added some Cherry shrimp into the tank just to keep it clean of any left over food. They will also eat any fry that die so there will be nothing rotting in the tank

I am assured that they won't eat eggs or fry unless they are dead.
So once this new filter arrives my process will be:
Fresh eggs into the net in the main tank.
Freshly hatched into a small tupperware container floating (suckered to the side of the main tank to stop it moving) with water changes daily.
1 week old fry transferred from container to nursery tank.
Will have to see if this works. If not then maybe they should stay in the container a little longer
Will try and get a pic of the 2 month old next to an adult for comparison. No idea how long they take to reach adult size.
AC