So the gouramis and angelfish are ok with each other right? Ive had them together for about 5 months with no issues, really my problems right now are my 2 big angels i have, i dont have the other 6 angels in yet and they seem to be territorial with the other geos, i think i may have a mated pair.
Generally, angelfish and gourami are not a good mix. Both are very similar in behaviours, males being very territorial. It may well work here, as you have space (something others with smaller tanks must keep in mind, as such combos are not always wise). And Pearl Gourami are one of the more peaceful gourami, so a better choice for this. But be prepared for arguments between them, if more angelfish are added.
Similarly, mixing ciochlid species is not usually advisable, though there are exceptions. Personally, I would not have other cichlids in with angelfish, and I think you are seeing why.
A male angelfish will regard the entire tank as his domain, particularly if he has been living in the tank for a while. Other angelfish will likely not be accepted in "his" space, so when others are added be prepared to have to remove them quickly. Sometimes removing the existing angels, rearranging the aquascape, and then introducing all the angels together can help; sometimes not. It largely depends upon the temperament of the existing fish.
Do you have any other possibly recommended schooling and colorful fish to substitute the roseline sharks? I think im going away from congos, not the most pretty fish, sure are active though.
I have a real love for Congo Tetra...but this is another fish I would not combine with angelfish, and you have exactly mentioned the reason--they are too active. Angelfish really are sedate, laid-back fish, and they are so beautiful they deserve an accommodating environment. I would avoid all barbs and danio off the top. Rasbora make good tankmates, the medium to larger species depending upon the size of the angelfish at present. And several of the characins, especially those with a disk-shape (linear fish like glowlights, neons, cardinals, rummys, etc are more likely to be eaten) such as some of the species in the Rosy Tetra, Roberti Tetra, Phantom Tetra group. If you want colour, the Rosy and Roberti are good choices. Some of this group are notorious fin nippers, to be avoided--Serpae, Bleeding Heart, etc. The larger hatchetfish (those in
Thoracocharax and
Gasteropelecus) work. Substrate fish are generally good, like corys, the common whiptail, and smaller (not over 5 inches) pleco.
With more thought I might have other suggestions.
Byron.