I would never use one of the grow your own crystal kits in an aquarium simply because there is no sure way of knowing which chemicals where used to create the crystals and the fact that with time the crystals fragment and break apart into tiny shards.
I think this list on the following link may be more useful for deciding which crystals may or not be safe on a permanent basis in a tank. Also I would find a new age/ mystic type shop that sells loose crystals and talk to them. If no such shops are near you then invest in a good crystal healing type book which should help you work out which gems are not water safe.
http://interdimensionalhealinglight.com/test.html
I think this list on the following link may be more useful for deciding which crystals may or not be safe on a permanent basis in a tank. Also I would find a new age/ mystic type shop that sells loose crystals and talk to them. If no such shops are near you then invest in a good crystal healing type book which should help you work out which gems are not water safe.
http://interdimensionalhealinglight.com/test.html