I think we all may get there thru our experience. I have gotten lax on a few things myself. My 38 gallon has not had a gravel vac in 3 years now, nor a water change in 2. I add as it evaporates. Somehow, this is the healthiest tank I have. It is heavily planted, and I attribute a lot to this.
Like I said before, I had a guy tell me to be less a fish keeper, and more a water keeper. The water is the key.
I am a huge fan of building eco systems. That is ultimately what needs to be done. Some of the recommendations I read here and there may work for some, but are ultimately unneeded.
This 75 gallon has been rough because of this inability for me to build a proper ecosystem. I am kicking around the idea of removing the ship, or maybe the castle, as these large object, while they look cool, inhibit the fish in their ability to swim about the tank. I have plants in other tanks I can take samples from and attempt to populate the tank. These are needed immensely. The plants, as you probably know, control the water params far better than any human intervention. The filter on the 38 is merely for mechanical filtration. Is a Penguin 200. The plants use the bad stuff in the water as food, and release oxygen back into the water. The bacteria in the substrate break down the fish waste into food the roots take up and create more oxygen in the column. Hence the never needing to stir up the substrate. I could gravel vac that and.probably come up with minimal detritus. All the food the fish miss is consumed right away by the shrimp in the tank and all the awesome free snails I have in their. It really is a small eco system at this point. I watch very closely, as I am figuring out how to create an environment with minimal intervention. So far, the fish are healthy, water params are perfect, and the plants thrive. I don't remove the dead branches and leaves. I don't even remove the occasional fish loss. The snails consume it right away. Adding fresh water, I too don't use dechlorinator in this tank. It's a small amount of water compared to the volume in the tank. But I also have decent water quality from the tap. I only use it for the massive water changes.
The hobby fully encompasses a lot of my interests. Horticulture, biology, chemistry ect.
This 75 gallon has been a challenge. I know the mistakes I made to end with this result. They were, in a way, unavoidable. I had this tank planted with water wisteria. That stuff grows like crazy. Too much. I removed it as that plant actually cause more harm than.good, and became too much to maintain. Nobody in the tank liked it. It did nothing to help water params. It was a giant bush of weeds in the tank than further inhibited fish freedom of movement. With large fish, this makes for sad fish if they are confined. Might as well be in 10 gallon aquariums.
Going forward, I am going to hold off on adding any new.fish. I am going to monitor the tank for a couple weeks to be sure everyone left is ok. I am then going to start planting this tank. I am going to use plants I know will help immensely with the eco.environment. I may remove some ornaments, and replace with more natural things. Build a.rock cave for the pleco vs the faux wood log now. Use fully aquatic and semi aquatic plants. When I do start a small restock, I am going to figure out what can play nice as far as bottom feeders/cleaners. These to minimize excess buildup of uneaten food. I'm going to stay away from another large fish until I get this tank balanced. There are plenty of fish in there now, and my pleco is quite large so, I have enough with that fella for now.
I have read several of your posts around here, and I believe we may share some philosophies on aquarium care. When introducing yourself to the crowd, ya tend to start off conservative. However, each case being unique, I too believe some folks, here and other places online, tend to overcomplicate this enjoyable hobby. Others are spot on. Maintain the water column and your fish will thrive.
I could probably babble.for days, but I will leave it at this for now.