This first brood i am just going to see how it pans out and observe them and there behaviour and if none happen to survive then ill likely separate the pair to anoter tank and let nature run it's course and bring up the young in another tank once i sort my spare room out which was always the plan anyway. To be fair in my tank they have done really well to get this far so it just shows they have good parenting skills.
Yeah when i first got them the female was twice the size of the male and suddenly the male has shot up and the famale stayed on the small side.