well cokcatoo's can be rather nasty, think of them as an oscar, minus the googley eyes. im not too sure as to what kind of things they like to dwell in, but if they have that it should keep the attacks to a minimum. even if their not breeding they will hold their own space religiously. other then their domocile, large plants u must obviously have, giving the cokatoos the upper hand as most of your fish are top dwellers, chasing them through the plants wouldnt be too difficult. other then taking the cichlids out all togethor u might try getting a third odd cichlid, not a cichlid in anyway similar to the cockatoos. this might pose a threat to them, as to keep their minds off of the slower, more appetizing fish, and concentrate their attention on the new, interesting cichlid.
I think you are unfairly maligning Oscars as being aggressive. Oscars are not aggressive just predatory. They will eat anything that fits into thier very large mouth. In fact, Oscars when compared to other New World Cichlids such as Jack Dempseys, Green Terrors, Red Devils, and even Convicts are positively laid back. I would be rather hesitant to keep an Oscar with any other Cichlid, aside from a Severum, because they are such mild tempered fish. Of course, as with all other Cichlids, Oscars when mating become extremely aggressive and would be dangerous to keep with any other fish you may have in your tank.