So, lots of fish things happening. I've decided to take the dominant male hybrid and the blue zebra, maybe the bumblebee too, the next time I go the the pet store. I'm also taking 9 of the older fry in and hopefully getting some khuli loaches (not for the cichlid tank).
Sorry for no photos, looks like I have to find a different way to upload pictures. I picked out six fry and have them in the 55. I don't think they are going to get beaten up/eaten, their colors are showing even better in the larger tank. I'm almost certain that one of the 2 yellow ones is male. When it has a mouth full of mini pellets it's gill plate and throat look slightly blue. None have egg spots yet, but they might not get them since their dad doesn't have any.
Edit: forgot to mention, I noticed that one of the more recent fry has a tail defect, just like one of the 47 fry has. It's possible that one of the females is carrying the gene, and I have an idea as to who it is. It can't be the dad that's causing it, because the two defective ones are from different fathers. Next time the suspected female spawns I will be keeping the fry separate and see if it really is her.